There are three doors in life. The sooner you close them, the better your life will be.

The ancients talked about \”standing at thirty\”, but modern people understand that \”standing at thirty\” mostly means a successful career.

If you want to improve and have a successful career, you must learn \” Close the door\”.

Close the \”door\” of floating and learn to settle; close the \”door\” of fantasy and learn to Maturity; close the \”door\” of negativity and learn to be positive.

Only by closing these three \”doors\” before the age of 30, what will happen after the age of 30? The doors will all open!

01

Close the floating \”door\”: learn to settle

Writer Chi Zijian said: \”When you chase something that has escaped, it is the same as catching the moonlight with your hands. You think you have caught it with your hands, but if you look carefully, you can see that you have caught it with your hands.It\’s empty. ”

When they are young, many people feel that the world belongs to them, and there are big I spend so much time chasing, but in the end I often end up being too distracted and unable to do things down-to-earth, and ultimately achieve nothing.

Netizens@风之声Told his story:

After graduating from college, he had a very high vision and ignored many people and things, as if he was allowed to run amok in the world.

He started working in a state-owned enterprise. Within a year, he felt that there were too many constraints and he could not use his talents. He resigned to work in a private company of a listed company.

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This collective enterprise had good profits and good remuneration. After working for almost a year, he resigned again.

The reason this time is that my classmates either work in state-owned enterprises or in listed companies. He is the only one who lives in this small collective enterprise and feels that he has no face and is inferior to others.

Just like that, he chose left and right and achieved nothing. When he turned 30 in the blink of an eye, he realized that his classmates either had successful careers or happy marriages, but he was the only one who had neither a career nor a marriage, and was completely destitute.

Then I realized that I was too floating, unsteady and unsteady, even in the sunniest years of my life. , failed to grasp it well.

There is a saying that goes well, \”Life requires precipitation, experience, mood, and myself.”

The years are like a dream, those youthful and frivolous experiences, those floating experiences, blown by the cold wind, are like a winding road, which will definitely make you drifting and accomplishing nothing.

When you are over thirty, wake up in time, please close the floating door and learn Solid and settled.

While time is still young, try your best to be down-to-earth, calm down, and make up for the situation. , life will surely blossom in spring.

02

Close the \”door\” of fantasy: learn to mature

Bernard Shaw said: \”Human beings always overestimate the value of what they don\’t have. ”

When everyone is young, it is easy to turn dreams into fantasies and daydreams Being entangled, let the good years be wasted in fantasy

When my cousin’s best friend Xiaojing was in high school, her academic performance was not very satisfactory, but she wanted to get into a prestigious university. She did not pay close attention to the study of basic knowledge, but chose to \”take shortcuts\”-buying guessing cheats everywhere. You can imagine the final result of trying to pass the college entrance examination with this method. After the college entrance examination score came down, she just passed the junior college level.

After graduating from college, she still has not changed her habit of \”dreaming\”. She wants to find an easy and profitable job and have a handsome and rich boyfriend.

In the end, nothing can be realized, and dreams always turn into fantasies. At the age of 30, she still had no results at work, and her love also came to nothing.

A relative left a message to her: People, it is better to have less fantasies and more practical actions before they can change. Gain mature wisdom

I remember there is a line in \”Farewell My Concubine\”: \”Human, you have to fulfill yourself.\” ”

Only when one has tasted the bitter taste of disillusionment and closes the \”door\” of fantasy can one become mature and steady.

03

Close the \”door\” of negativity and learn to be positive

Victor Hugo, the master of French romantic literature, said: \”When God gives a person difficulties, he also gives a person wisdom. ”

Life is driven by this giving. We don’t need to beg God for help. Be fair and don’t shrink back and be negative and pessimistic in the face of difficulties

Negativity is the \”door\”, and positivity is also the \”door\”, which tests your courage to make choices.

Xiang Chenxi, born in 1992, is a Tujia girl from Laifeng County, Hubei Province.

When she was 7 years old and in the first grade of elementary school, she suddenly fell down one day and fell frequently after that. Her parents took her to the hospital for examination, and the diagnosis was a rare \”progressive muscular dystrophy.\” This disease gradually worsens with age and eventually affects her life. There is currently no good treatment for this disease.

When she was in high school, her condition worsened and she needed help when walking, lying down, and sitting. Everyone needs help.

He had no choice but to drop out of school when he was a sophomore in high school.

Despite this, Xiang Chenxi, who returned home, did not want to increase the burden on the family. In order to be able to work for a while, let her mother use straps to fix her body to the bed and then put the bed up.

She has written novels, embroidered cross-stitch, opened an online store, and also made customer service.

In 2016, 80% of her body was paralyzed, and only her hands were relatively flexible. At this time, through webcasting, she began to try handmade clay work.

Soon, more and more netizens liked her clay works. The works are all very lifelike.

As her influence grew, she founded the Morning Clay Academy in 2019. He teaches clay techniques and has more than 500 students so far. She teaches students with disabilities free of charge.

Xiang Chenxi not only used her own technology to buy all the living equipment for herself, but also The family\’s burden is relieved and love is gained.

In October 2021, after an examination in the hospital, the doctor told her that her condition had changed and she was diagnosed with \”immune-mediated necrotizing myositis.\” This Although it is also a rare disease, it is a treatable disease

The sunshine always comes after the storm! Currently, she has started treatment. She believes that Xiang Chenxi, who faces life positively, will surely rise to the sun and stand up again.

She said: \”Negativity is a reminder to me. Only when I close the door of negativity and be positive can life bloom like flowers.\” ”

Negative people will slowly wither life; positive people, even if the body Even if there is illness, the flower of life will bloom.

In the journey of life, every ups and downs are Extraordinary scenery

You don’t need to keep thinking about the frivolity before the age of thirty. When you wake up, please close the \”door\” behind you, stop floating, throw away your illusions, and bury your negativity.

After the age of thirty, if you have settled your character, matured your thoughts, and been positive, you will still have a life.highlight moment.

May we understand each other!