The best Feng Shui for a family is to open these \”three doors\”

The ancients had many proverbs about family feng shui.

\”It is better to have a small entrance in front of the door than to have a lot of people at the door.\”

\”The door should always be open and the door should always be closed ”

Many people think that as long as they choose a good place and build a luxurious house, the Feng Shui will be good.

In fact, where the house is located has a great impact on the development of the family, but it is not a decisive factor.

\”Sun Bin\’s Art of War\” says: \”If the weather, the right location, and the right people are not matched, even if you win, there will be disaster.\” . ”

Geography alone has great advantages, but it is useless if people and weather are not favorable.

If you observe it, you will find that in the same village, some people are so rich and some are so poor that they can’t eat; even in a row of houses, different families , all have different economies and statuses.

\”Jade Pian\” said: \”The door is where people come in and out.\”

If a family has good Feng Shui, then the family members will come in and out safely and orderly, and each entry and exit will bring satisfactory income.

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Opening the \”far door\” is a pattern.

Traveling can be to see the scenery, to do errands, or to pursue a career in a distant place.

In ancient times, and there is also a saying: \”A prominent family stays in their hometown, while a poor family travels far and wide\”.

Since you can’t find a way locally, then go to a distant place. Opportunities for development are just around the corner.

Even if you are a person with great ambitions, if you don’t have a good platform, you will achieve nothing.

Family members who can think about the future based on the present are very far-sighted people. With a long-term plan, everyone will have a direction, and all efforts will be more effective.

At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, when Liu Bei was still a boy, his father died early and he and his mother made a living by weaving straw mats and sandals.

One ​​day, Liu Bei played the game of \”being an emperor\” with his playmates.

He regarded a tree as the emperor\’s chariot, and said that when he grew up, he would ride in this chariot.

His uncle heard this and immediately stopped: \”Don\’t lie, you will destroy our family.\”

On the contrary, Liu Bei\’s mother disapproved and encouraged Liu Bei to go out to pursue his dream. Historical records: \”The mother envoys practice learning.\”

Sure enough, Liu Bei went around in circles and established the Shu Han.

Wang Wei of the Tang Dynasty left his hometown and studied in the capital in order to gain fame.

I can\’t go home during the holidays, so I wrote the famous sentence \”I am a stranger in a foreign land, but I miss my family even more during the holidays.\” Later, he became famous in one fell swoop and made great achievements in poetry and poetry.

After a family builds a house, it arranges for all the people to farm and do small businesses around it. This obviously has limitations. Even if the area around the house is easy to do business and develops rapidly, it will be in vain if the family does not have a \”long-term plan.\”

Go far away, take one step to see a foreign land, and everything will be fine.

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Opening the \”heart door\” is harmony

The ancients said: “If a household has two doors, it will be difficult for people and money to survive. ”

Literally understood, if the front door of a house is opened and the back door is opened, it will be difficult to keep money.

According to tradition, even if you want to open the front and back doors, the back door must be smaller than the front door, forming a wealth-gathering layout

If you understand it deeply, you will find that \”one household, two doors\” mainly means that if everyone cannot work together to start a business, they will have two minds. As a result, many doors in the family will be opened. , they ran away and lost their joint strength.

In any era, everything is prosperous when the family is harmonious.

A harmonious family can promote family business and change Feng Shui.

Harmony has two aspects: First, harmony within the family; second, harmony between families and neighbors.

In the summer vacation of 2004, Liu Xiaoqiang, who lives in Ningjiang District, was admitted to Peking University with a score of 634. However, his family was very poor and could not pay the tuition.

At the same time, his sister was admitted to Jilin Normal University.

After discussion with his family, Liu Xiaoqiang gave up Peking University and chose to let his sister complete her studies first. p>

Their family deeds attracted the attention of many well-wishers and received help from many people.

When school started, Liu Xiaoqiang received the donation and entered the campus of Peking University.

After my sister arrived at school, she also received help from classmates and teachers. She was also assigned a work-study position and received a student loan.

Human nature is \”selfish\” , everyone hopes to have the opportunity to develop and stand out from the family, but if everyone does this, the family will become noisy and fight with each other.

Open your heart and say a few heart-felt words. People will become kind and be able to reach a consensus.

Naturally, we will understand each other. As long as you are kind to the people around you, there will be nothing you can\’t handle. A good living environment will make our lives comfortable and create a situation of mutual help.

Think about it, in a luxurious house, family members are noisy, have arguments, and neighbors come to yell at you from time to time.

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Opening the \”side door\” is a workaround .

Many people have prejudices against going astray.

In \”Yan Zi Envoys to Chu\”, the King of Chu asked Yan Zi to enter the palace through the side door, and Yan Zi said, \”This is a dog cave\”

In fact, the side door is not necessarily the door of the house, but the \”doorway\” of the family.

There is a word called \”sword taking the opposite direction\” That is to say, some unusual and novel methods should be used to resolve conflicts and promote development.

\”The Book of Changes\” says: \”If you are poor, you will think about change, and if you change, you will be able to master it. ”

A family that lives unchanged will definitely be eliminated by the times. As long as it changes with the times, it can take advantage of the trend.

For example, in a village with beautiful scenery, everyone started a farm tour.

More than ten years ago, farm tours attracted guests from the county. Everyone drives over and spends the weekend.

Now, it depends on foreign tourists. To attract tourists, you need to use smartphones for promotion, learn to use software, do live broadcasts, etc.

Families that can keep up with the times become stronger with each generation and can always introduce new things.

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Of course, if your house is not in a good location Well, even if your family business is not going well, don’t worry.

As the saying goes: \”Feng shui will take turns and come to my home next year.\”

As long as you make good use of the above doors , the opportunity for family development is seized, the family is united, and people become active, there will be improvement within a year.

Standing on the cusp of the storm, even pigs can take off, let alone people.

Open the door, look for the cusp of the storm, and ride the waves.

Author: Commoner.

Follow my words and get into your heart.

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