The best Feng Shui for a family is these \”three doors\”

The ancients said:“People stand because of their houses, and houses exist because of people. People and houses support each other and connect with the heaven and earth, so you cannot believe in fate alone.”

There are many rules at home dictated by the older generation.

For example, a house should be built near mountains and rivers. Water is the foundation of life, and mountains are where wealth is created. Hunting, logging, planting fruit trees, etc. are all carried out in the mountains, which is regarded as \”backing\”; fishing, traveling, etc., all have to take waterways, which is regarded as \”great luck\”.

There are also some scenery that we need to avoid.

For example, if the door opens to a wall, a sword, or a toilet, it will not only bring a bad mood to the people who go out, but also change the layout of the house. Very bad.

The house must be in a \”blessed place\” and the family must have \”good fortune\”. Therefore, if a family with good Feng Shui opens the door, there will be signs of blessings.

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Healthy body and mind are the gateway to wealth.

A healthy body is the largest real estate. Many families agree on this.

No matter who in the family gets sick, the family will be very anxious and will be affected. They will suffer a certain amount of financial losses and will not be able to get more money. wealth.

In Chekhov\’s works, there is a man named Gromov, who was born in a noble family. He worked as a bailiff and provincial secretary, and went to university. Due to physical reasons, I lost my job and lived in ward No. 6.

When Gromov was reading in the ward,His reading was also thought to be pathological. There is no hope for the family anymore.

In fact, what is more important than physical health is spiritual health –correct values, wisdom and methods of accumulating wealth.

Zuo Zongtang, a famous official in the late Qing Dynasty, after years of hard work, his family became rich, but he chose\”the wise but the few Wealth”. His approach was based on a sentence in \”Zi Zhi Tong Jian\”: \”If a wise man has a lot of money, it will harm his ambition; if a fool has a lot of money, it will benefit his fault.\”

Only families that are virtuous but have little wealth can make their children truly realize the cruelty of social competition and have a certain degree of competitiveness. Spend money to let your children study more, see more of the world, and experience life, but you cannot leave a lot of money for your children to sit back and enjoy the benefits.

Zuo Zongtang warned his children and grandchildren: \”The older generations should accumulate more virtues and do good deeds, and the younger generations should study more.\”

In the Chinese New Year, we have to open the door to wealth and receive the God of Wealth; we usually have to find ways to make money and change our fortune. What can really make our dreams come true is to be healthy, do more good deeds, read more, think more, and seek development.

When the family has money, other things will be easier to handle.

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A kind father and a filial son are a blessing.

Someone asked: \”What kind of person is blessed?\”

High Zan’s answer is: “Blessings are given by giving.Come, don\’t ask for something. ”

If a person is unwilling to give in front of his family, it will definitely be difficult for him to seek development externally.

Since ancient times, the key to a family\’s development is \”what you sow will reap, and what you sow will reap\”

If you are not even willing to pay for the melons, and you are not even willing to take out the beans, you will definitely not succeed if you keep thinking about nothing.

It can be seen that if you want to seek development externally, the first step is to treat your family well. A person who is filial to his parents and cares for his children will not have bad luck.

Zengzi was filial to his parents since he was a child.

Once, Zengzi and his father accidentally broke the melon seedling. Zengzi was very angry and knocked him unconscious. Zengzi stood up and apologized to his father.

When Confucius learned about Zeng Zi\’s behavior, he was very angry and thought that Zeng Zi\’s filial approach was wrong. After that, Zeng Zi learned a lot of etiquette from Confucius and became a master of Confucianism.

Zeng Zi\’s father also worshiped Confucius as his teacher, and he deeply realized that the way he educated his children was wrong.

When Zengzi became a father, he went to the market with his wife. The wife casually said to his son: \”Come back and kill a pig for you to eat.\” \”The allusion of \”Zengzi cooking pigs\” is derived, telling parents all over the world to be honest with their children.

Continue to pass on filial piety and regulate it with etiquette, morality, and law The behavior of the family is well understood and sensible for generations, which is the truest blessing.

As Master Huifa said: \”Happiness cannot be obtained. You can only live happily to attract blessings. ”

The blessing of a family is based on the material foundation and forms a spiritual realm. The word \”respect\” is reflected in everything.

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Many families used to have smooth sailing, but later they fell into mourning. The changes are so sad.

In our daily life, we often say: “Take a long trip. ”

Going to see the scenery, looking for a way out, and making money are all \”far doors\”.

There are \”far doors\” The family is to use the current conditions to plan more interests and take into account the development of the children and grandchildren.

In ancient times, Mencius\’s mother moved three times and educated Mencius by changing the environment. This is a very obvious \”far away\” thinking

It is also witnessed. A famous saying by Mencius: “Be born in sorrow and die in happiness. ”

In real life, what can we do to have a \”far door\”?

It is recommended to start from Start from three aspects: first, family members remind each other, dare to criticize, and prevent wrong things from continuing to happen; second, hold a family meeting to study arrangements for the next few decades and work together; third, based on With the development of the times, new development concepts will be constantly introduced and will not be eliminated by the times.

A person\’s wisdom and strength are limited, and people are often very conceited and cannot see their own shortcomings. People from the outside are used to flattery and even want your family to warn each other. , is the most real \”love\”

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In ancient times, in order to change the feng shui of the family, Yu Gong took his descendants and moved the mountains outside the door. This made transportation more convenient, and the things he cultivated could be brought to the town to exchange for money. .

Feng shui is never static and can be changed. If you feel that your family is unfortunate, then take the right treatment and formulate it. \”Smooth sailing\” pattern

Keep your body and mind healthy, and you won’t have to worry about running out of firewood.

Form a good family tradition, and blessings will come unexpectedly.

Pay attention to being prepared for danger in times of peace, and each generation will be better than the next.

Believe that mountains can be moved, water can be diverted, homes can be built, and everything can be done. Turn things around.

Author: Bu Yi Rushi.

Follow my words and get into your heart.

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